Tony Stark: There’ ersus been speculation that I was involved in the events that occurred on the freeway and the rooftop…
Christine Everheart: I’ mirielle sorry, Mr. Stark, but would you honestly expect us to believe that will that was a bodyguard in a fit that conveniently appeared, despite the fact that…
Tony Stark: I know that it’ s confusing. It is one thing to question the official story, and one more thing entirely to make wild accusations, or insinuate that I’ m the superhero.
Christine Everheart: I never stated you were a superhero.
Tony Stark: Didn’ t?
Christine Everheart: Mmm-mmm.
Tony Stark: Properly, good, because that would be outlandish and, uh, fantastic. I’ m just not the hero type. Clearly. Using this laundry list of character defects, all the mistakes I’ ve made, generally public.
Rhodey: [whispers to Tony] Just stick to the cards, man.
Tony Stark: Yeah, okay.
Tony Stark: [holds up his notes and pauses] The truth is…
Tony Stark: [puts cards down] I am Iron Man.
— Iron Man (2008) [source: IMDB.com]
Last lesson I presented you to the concept of the secret identity task. You saw how starting and keeping focused on designing and residing your unique man-adventure is the first phase toward curing the ordinary-itis that infects most men’ s lives and relationships.
In this article, I am going to provide you with greater detail on exactly how to start your very own secret identity task today.
How to Start Your Secret Identity Project
What you will need.
1 . a hobby with a local chapter, club, class or team that meets at least once per week.
2 . put it on the diary
3. go to it.
4. pick a objective for yourself within the month to demonstrate your own progress in public.
For instance , maybe you want to learn guitar. You sign up for classes, or if you are broke, you find a friend or relative to agree to teach you at least once per week. You put the classes at the calendar. You pick a goal: learn one song and perform it at open mike night in 28 days.
Your objective must be ambitious and must be the public demonstration of your skill. A karate tournament. A photography show at the public library where you’ ll display some of your photos. A slam dunk contest operate by the local radio. etc .
See what we’ re doing? You go do your work with a group. That means you gotta appear. That means you won’ t delay. You won’ t not visit the gym and say that you do.
And that goal. That’ s gonna keep you honest. It’ s either going to be a community demonstration of what you can achieve in a short time or it’ s gonna be a public hanging. No in between. No place to hide. That’ s the idea.
And if you think failing to learn that song has consequences. Exactly what have been the consequences of you being checked out of your life for the last few years? What is going to be the consequences of not establishing public goals like that for yourself long term in your life?
As William Wallace says:
Aye, fight and you may pass away. Run, and you’ ll live… at least a while…
Remember, a person won’ t get off the island by doing the same stuff you often did.
So , get to work on your Secret Identity Task. And don’ t tell the wife it’ s about moving away from the island. Don’ t tell her that this is important. Downplay the thing. It’ s nothing, you’ ll tell her. My guess is you won’ t have to work very hard to convince her of that. She’ s used to your projects not amounting to much. Am We right?
Don’ t sweat it. That’ s not your fault. And more importantly, everything is about to change.
Does she think she has you all figured out?
Treats you like you are older news?
- Gain access to and express your feelings.
- Unhook from trying to impress the girl
- See her rejections as cute
- And awaken her inner pornstar.
Start the 28-day Get Her Attention Problem today.
She won’ t even recognize you by the end of the month.